E s s e n t i a: Archive

Okay, you perverted little fucking 13 year old boys. Stop asking girls if they're a virgin on FS. It's fucking annoying, and you need to learn some manners before I slap some into you.

Jan 29, 2010

Jan 28, 2010

What the fuck is this shit? Why am I putting up with it. Naa, FUCK YOU N YOUR BULLSHIT!

Jan 28, 2010

You say you down to ride. But how come you never pick up my phonecalls?

Jan 27, 2010

To become a better person, you need to...

rubyle:

I owe it to my boss at yogurt world for his random inspiring and motivating talks he has with some of us workers. Recently, he told me how to get success in life. Karma. What comes around, goes around. If you’re a good person, if you strive to be the best you can be for yourself but mostly others, you will get rewards in return.

Three main things for you to do to build your self and get rid of the selfish ego (which stops you from growing)

1. Give more then you can. —— Don’t give the least, do MORE then you THINK you can. This includes helping out a friend or family member, studies for your classes, working hard, donating money, and more and more.

For example, my little 12 year old cousin makes no money whatsoever and has no allowance. Only time she gets money is on her birthday & Christmas. She got about 50 bucks in cash this recent christmas. The other day, she gave her mom an envelope and told her its money for the people in Haiti. Her mom opens it and its the 50 bucks. She wanted to buy clothes and stuff for herself with that money…but she figured they needed it more.

2. Do something that makes you uncomfortable, out of your box —- You don’t get anywhere if you keep doing the same thing over and over because you’re already good at it. How will you grow? Do something on purpose that you know you hate and acccept what comes after, it will make you a better person.

For example: I hated speeches. From when I first started school till my high school years. But because I knew I hated it, I put myself out there to do them more and I challenged myself more to do it. And improve in it. Now? I love speeches! And people always tell me I look like I’ve always loved it.

3. Don’t react —- this is the main problem amongst many people. The best way to handle any reaction is to NOT shoot back. Always be calm, paitent, and accept what just happened. Too many people drop friends so easily off of drama, or judge & stereotype just because someone did ONE thing. People nowadays are always hating people they don’t even know! There are reactions. And to have it controlled will do you good. Accept more people, stop reacting so big. Because honestly, you’re just being selfish.

For example: If a boyfriend or girlfriend is angry at you and they start yelling at you with extreme anger. Will you being angry back help anything? No. You have to breathe, calm yourself, and maybe try to see their side. Accept their anger. Talk to them in the softest voice you can, even if they’re yelling. When you have no reaction, how are they going to yell at you more? They can’t.