I owe it to my boss at yogurt world for his random inspiring and motivating talks he has with some of us workers. Recently, he told me how to get success in life. Karma. What comes around, goes around. If you’re a good person, if you strive to be the best you can be for yourself but mostly others, you will get rewards in return.
Three main things for you to do to build your self and get rid of the selfish ego (which stops you from growing)
1. Give more then you can. —— Don’t give the least, do MORE then you THINK you can. This includes helping out a friend or family member, studies for your classes, working hard, donating money, and more and more.
For example, my little 12 year old cousin makes no money whatsoever and has no allowance. Only time she gets money is on her birthday & Christmas. She got about 50 bucks in cash this recent christmas. The other day, she gave her mom an envelope and told her its money for the people in Haiti. Her mom opens it and its the 50 bucks. She wanted to buy clothes and stuff for herself with that money…but she figured they needed it more.
2. Do something that makes you uncomfortable, out of your box —- You don’t get anywhere if you keep doing the same thing over and over because you’re already good at it. How will you grow? Do something on purpose that you know you hate and acccept what comes after, it will make you a better person.
For example: I hated speeches. From when I first started school till my high school years. But because I knew I hated it, I put myself out there to do them more and I challenged myself more to do it. And improve in it. Now? I love speeches! And people always tell me I look like I’ve always loved it.
3. Don’t react —- this is the main problem amongst many people. The best way to handle any reaction is to NOT shoot back. Always be calm, paitent, and accept what just happened. Too many people drop friends so easily off of drama, or judge & stereotype just because someone did ONE thing. People nowadays are always hating people they don’t even know! There are reactions. And to have it controlled will do you good. Accept more people, stop reacting so big. Because honestly, you’re just being selfish.
For example: If a boyfriend or girlfriend is angry at you and they start yelling at you with extreme anger. Will you being angry back help anything? No. You have to breathe, calm yourself, and maybe try to see their side. Accept their anger. Talk to them in the softest voice you can, even if they’re yelling. When you have no reaction, how are they going to yell at you more? They can’t.
WAIT. LOL, you know i’m not lisa from cali right?
Yes! Haha. Don’t trip, I’ll be traveling around alot soon.
lisaaaaa! llol, you still owe me, because super crew won. :D
LOLOLOL. Fine. Sushi?! =]
But daaaadddy ! Jenn’s birthday is this weekend(x &I wish I could go down there -_-
Me too hunnie! But I have no way to get there =/ Maybe Jason?!
Just wondering if you remembered me. LOL, y’know, the person who made a bet with when i think it was Beatfreaks and supercrew.
Name please?! That sounds so damn familiar?! bhaha.
who’s your girlfriend?
Megan Fox [;
You should come up to SJ this saturday ! =)
I have to go to UCLA thi saturday! How about you come to UCLA!?
IS MAKING ME TEAAR :[
the first time i saw you , you looked gay . soorrry AHAHAH !
I get that alot, it doesn’t bother me. My sister says it’s cos I dress too nicely, and I have girly features. Lol.
Why are you so gay …
Lol, fag. Come up with something original!
Hi, My Sweetheart <3 <3
Baby: but ill let u get to bed cause im about to k.o
saywuhhG O 0 F Y :dont lie
saywuhhG O 0 F Y :you about to eat
saywuhhG O 0 F Y :and then watch some online tv
saywuhhG O 0 F Y :then take ur contacts off
Baby: i was gonna get some gaterade .. then sleep
saywuhhG O 0 F Y :n sleep
saywuhhG O 0 F Y :…
saywuhhG O 0 F Y:SEE
Baby:maybe a muffin ..
saywuhhG O 0 F Y :I WAS RIGHT HAHAH…
Baby:im not sure yet